We Are Fucked

Perfect Illustration of the currant state of the USA.


Sad but true.  This country, the one we’ve been crowing about for nearly 250 years as the shining example of the triumph of democratic achievement has one, tiny, little secret:

It was all a big fat fucking lie.

Created by rich white men, most of whom either owned slaves, had owned slaves, or would own slaves.  They were almost certainly not the enlightened and completely altruistic heroes we’ve been told about. They regarded most women as property.  Sure, some allowed themselves to lower themselves to the level of women and were duly rewarded when such women seemed to bloom under their care, guidance, and tutelage.
(Of course, what was really happening was they were allowing themselves to recognize the skills, value, and abilities that had always existed in these and all women.)

Is it any surprise then, that at the end of the day, this country, every scrap of it, has an incredible bias towards white men and rich white men in particular. This bias is so very fundamental as to be nearly invisible.

Make no mistake.  These men created this country for the benefit of all.  No doubt about that.

But in their hearts, the word “all” was synonymous with “white men” first and foremost. All others came a very distant second.

This is the unspoken fundamental truth that we’ve been in denial about since forever.

Not surprising, considering white men had been pretty much running things forever.
There was no reason to change.

Think about that. 

Re-read all of the great, glorious, magical, documents associated with the birth of our country. See all the references to “men”. We’ve culture-corrected those references, in our own heads, to mean “people”. (After not a little pushing, shoving, bleeding, dying, killing, etc.)

But this does not change the intent and underlying world view shared by these great men.  They envisioned a country filled with all sorts of entities; men, women, and others.
That’s how they saw people. Anyone not white belonged to the “other” category. These were entities that were “almost” people.

The simple and somewhat ugly truth, the truth that we’ve been denying, is that these men, the founders of our country, created a world where they, as the destined ruling class (that being white men) would thrive and prosper.

And they (most of them anyway) gave absolutely zero thought to anyone outside themselves.

Don’t misunderstand, they wanted only the very best for everyone. (Provided the quality and opportunities of their own personal lives were never impacted negatively.)

This is why our country is broken.  It was broken from the beginning.

Can it be fixed?

There was a time when the answer was “Of course!  The US can do anything!”

But that’s a lie. We’ve clearly demonstrated the profound ability to NOT be able to do anything, other than to make rich white men richer and more powerful.

We make it through the so-called civil rights movement.  We thought gains were made.  We thought the country was moving forward.

We thought it was working.

And at some levels, town, city, and state, it might have been.

But at the federal level, the rules still give all the power and opportunities to rich white men.  Others need not apply.

The civil rights movement did nothing to eradicate the underlying hate, resentment, and outrage that afflicted so many white people. When they no longer felt welcome in the national conversation, they didn’t go away.  They went silent and underground. 

And they grew.  Initially, via word of mouth and personal relationships. The internet age brought them all the tools they needed to connect, thrive, and most importantly, influence.

Still doubt the idea?

Take a look at the baby-man Cheeto “running” the country.

All of his perceived faults, the thinly veiled hate, the ignorance, the lies, the denial, the seemingly endless list of character flaws, are perfectly representative of the kind of person our founding fathers saw as the perfect leader: A rich white man.

They would have seen no problem with the Cheeto.  They would have clucked their tongues at his boorishness and ignorance. But his fundamental right to be a leader would be a given.

And there’s obviously a great number of people who still feel that way.  They see him as a leader…a great one.

We are truly and profoundly fucked as a country.

Until a majority of the people of this country understand the fundamental shortcomings of our leaders, how can we possibly begin to effect real change?

The only way forward is to fix everything from the ground up.

Not amendments, not presidential edicts, not shaming, not focus groups, not anything like that.

We have to start with one simple shared and committed concept: every human alive in this country has all the rights, opportunities, and responsibilities of every other human.

For real this time.

Once that is done, we get really radical.

We level the playing field for real.

For everyone.

We perform the herculean task of equally redistributing all real wealth. 

All of it.

There’s about $98 trillion owned by US citizens.

There’s about 208 million adults in the US.

$98,000,000,000,000/ 208,000,000 = (roughly) $471,000 per adult.

That’s right, that’s how screwed up this whole thing is.

We start by taking it all away and actually distributing it evenly.

That’s where we start.

And if we actually do that, it will solve most, if not all of our countries issues.

Let’s get started.




 

 

The Problem Is Me.

The existential dumpster fire that is the current reality in the US is most frightening not because it represents some sort of bizarre action movie whereby a crack team of heroes must make superhuman efforts to overcome a monstrous, invisible, and insidious enemy, all while having little or no chance at survival, much less success.

It is frightening because we know exactly how to overcome this crisis, but because of the very thing that allowed us to get to this place in our existence, our fervent, fundamental, and immutable tribalism.

Tribalism allowed us to pull together as small groups to survive a practically impossible beginning; animals that were weak, slow, vulnerable, and most of all, tasty.

Left as individuals, humanity would certainly have died out millennia ago.

But we were given one great gift: a brain far more advanced then most. This gave us relative superpowers respective to the animals around us. This great gift allowed us to not only survive, but to flourish.

Ultimately, it also gave us biases.

We learned to fear the unknown and the different. We clung to our beliefs and distrusted any deviation. We decided was TRUE and based our thinking and behavior around that, regardless of its actual veracity. Remembering and thinking of what specific behavior or thinking was correct took time and effort. Our ever-helpful brains eventually made this easier for us by making all that TRUTH part of the very makeup of our identity. 

We developed unconscious and profoundly effective biases.

Biases push us towards that which is familiar and reassuring and away from anything else. They push us towards and away from people.

Here is the hardest part (for me anyway) to accept: “I am not, and have never been, in complete control of how I think and act.”

The price we must all pay to resolve this crisis is high indeed.  It is nothing less than turning our backs on almost everything we believe at a fundamental level.

Many point to racism, ageism, elitism, and a million other “isms” as the culprit.  Sadly true but it doesn’t go quite far enough.

The problem is not and has never been them, or them, or them, or them.

The problem has always been and will always be us, until we, as individuals and as a people decide to change.

We Must Change. All of us. Everyone. There are no exceptions and there is no room for equivocation.

We Must Change.

Or we will fail.

Perhaps the perfect expression of the downside to accepting the status quo is from the immortal “Casablaca”: “…If that plane leaves the ground and you’re not with him, you’ll regret it. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but soon and for the rest of your life.”

Perfect, except that it is not “the rest of your life”. It is the rest of all our lives.

As a nation, as a people, we can endure and prosper during this time. But doing so will require great effort, understanding, empathy, and above all else, sacrifice, from everyone, all of us.

Because this is not about them.  It’s never been about them.

This is about us.

We must, somehow, move beyond our fundamental tribalism and come to understand that we have a great and terrible choice: We can continue on our current path and pay a terrible price measured in human pain, financial loss, and even greater tribal divisions.

Or we can pay a potentially even higher price, at least in the short term; rip away the world views, concepts, and ideas that keep us, as a people, apart. Commit to do whatever it takes to make sure every person has the same rights, opportunities, and protection.

For real this time.  Not just words on a page.

We’re lucky in that agreeing to one simple concept will get us very far down that path:

Every human being, regardless of race, color, wealth, education, residence, occupation, etc, is just as valuable, relevant, and important as every other person.

Irrespective of the flowery elegance of our national documents, this has never been true.  We must make it true now.